Submissive Personality?
I have been jokingly called a brat by a former (currently complicated) dominant. He went on to clarify that I am a playful sprite. I think this is true because I'm not acting out for punishment or "funishment". If I wanted to be spanked or some other form of impact play I'd ask for it, if the answer is 'no', so be it. However, he still calls me a brat and it became part of a tattoo indicating my lifestyle.
How would you describe your submissive personality?
Playful, loving, affectionate, caretaking, service oriented, obedient to the best of my ability. Sometimes quiet and introspective. Often outspoken and strongly opinionated. Sometimes I am obstinate but I've learned to ask for time if I am struggling with something instead of digging my heels in and making my partner drag me into place.
How does your owner encourage or enhance who you are?
Currently my Dominus requires that I cover my hair. It is a show of submission to him, somewhat like a collar but with different meaning. He has taken something that used to be my pride and has found a way to save it for himself alone. It scared me at first, I worried about causing offense or being misunderstood. But I have only received compliments to date. It has humbled me some though I am allowed some leeway and can still express some individuality in my head coverings. And hey, there are no bad hair days! There are, however, bad scarf days. Oy!
He not only requires my service in the home but, he accepts it and allows me to express that part of myself freely and without fear of recrimination or rejection. On my good days I feel very fulfilled and at peace. I've found a niche for that part of myself through him.
He and my former dominant partner (currently complicated) both encourage me to practice self-care of my mental and physical health.
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