I'm sitting here confused. In the last two weeks she has gradually stopped being as responsive to my texts. She no longer texts asking for permission to call. In the last week she has responded to maybe two of my texts. None of them in the last three days. She's not talking to Alan either. Why?
If she's lost interest or has decided we're not a good fit I would understand that. But please give me the courtesy of telling me. I would give the same courtesy to you.
But maybe I'm overreacting and jumping to conclusions. It's easy to do when you're left wondering.
I thought we'd found someone who would become part of our family. I hoped that would be the case. She told us that's what she wanted.
I'm trying to keep the faith but I'm beginning to pull back a bit and wrapping a bit of armor around my heart. I want to trust but it is difficult.
We'll see how things go this coming week. We need to talk about the relationship to be sure we're all on the same page. If we are then we must discuss expectations on all sides.
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