Recently I had a Dom friend tell me that playing with me scared him. His inner sadist comes fully to the fore when playing with me and it's a lot stronger than he realized.
How is one supposed to take a comment like that? "Playing with you scares me."
I can't help but be who I am and apparently that speaks to something in most of the Dominants I've played with. Whatever it is, be it my enjoyment of the pain, my willingness to endure, or whatever... it is slightly fascinating and unsettling at the same time to have a Dominant be afraid of what he might do while playing with you.
